Healing the Twin Flame Runner Dynamic



How can we heal the dynamic between twin flame runners and chasers? What makes a runner run? What makes a chaser chase? Does a chaser have more power and responsibility to help resolve issues than they think?

We talk about the complexities twin flames and soul mates face: the fact that we both have inner runners and chasers, as well as our ancestral backgrounds and family of origin patterns, past lives, childhood trauma, negative energies impacting us, and more. We discuss the fact that healing can be done to resolve all the issues, and greatly increase the likelihood of the couple coming into full union.

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47 thoughts on “Healing the Twin Flame Runner Dynamic”

  1. Fundamental question: The way you are talking here is that both partners are actively acknowledging a relationship, almost that they both understand and accept that they are in ANY form of relationship, not to mind a Twin Soul relationship, and both are almost making a commitment to advancing the relationship, in which case, there really wouldn't be need for much work?
    How does all of this work when one is aware, and one is completely strolling along almost happy that there is no real relationship, beyond say friendship?

  2. Wait, you are a professional psychologist?
    I studied psychology, too.
    I have met a man three years ago, we are seperated for 2 years, dont talk a word, he is married and we had an affair, something what I am not proud of and many people call me names for. I didnt want it, but the love (? Is this love??) was so deep…
    I Love him deeply. I feel so crazy…
    Isnt it sick?
    I look at Whatsapp and think sometimes he does it too.
    If something is in my life, something what makes me afraid, I feel him….
    It feels sick, mentally ill.
    He was not very good to me and moved now to another country.
    This twinflame concept is against my christian upbringing, some call it evil…
    But I cant Stop to love this man…its not normal:(

  3. So I'm watching just getting an understanding of this twin flame journey. A bit scared of it as a Christian woman to be honest. It's definitely happening to me this journey is. Well….I'm just in tears during the healing part. Had no intention of crying or anything really, was just watching. Wow, didn't know I felt something but I must have some healing to do. Thanks so much for sharing. My twin and I are just texting right now but I will do the work that I can to bring us into Union.

  4. I find traditional to be insufficient also. Not everyone you can talk to about this. Not everyone understands. It makes you look crazy and I'm only 7 months into this. Thank God I have my son! He brought this to my attention about three years ago and I thought he was crazy 🤣😂 touche my son

  5. Pray for my healing journey ..I met my twin flame after a huge rain storm then two rainbows showed in the clear sky and we saw each other ..I was drawn to him and him to me..we fell madly in love ..I began to run from fear ..then I came back then he ran now..my heart is broken but I adore him..he is soo beautiful inside and out and I pushed him too far away..I love him no matter what and I see him at a distance all the time but we ignore each other ..its heartbreaking 🙁

  6. Your videos are helpful in many ways but I resent deeply when you insist on saying things like "a man who is in touch with his feelings is a 'new age' guy'" Like you brush men off who have 'feelings' as new-age and more in their feminine, as if it is less masculine to acknowledge that men have feelings too and to label him as a 'new age guy' is disrespectful to men. To slap such a category and label is almost imasculating men who have feelings. The way you put it almost sounds like an assumption that a man who is in touch with his feelings and invested in his twin flame journey and connection makes him 'sensitive and new age'. Does that assume that 'siritualaility' is 'new-age' and is feminine? What are you implying about men when you call him 'new-age' and 'sensitive'?

  7. I just found you both. It’s exactly what I was searching for and your words are speaking to me and exactly what I needed to hear right now. My soulmate/ twin flame and I only can write each other as we are so intense in the physical that the power is overwhelming for both of us. We’re so deeply connected that I feel him and he feels me with no time or distance. He’s more reserved then me in our integrating but yet we both feel each other working on our issues and making a healthy path together. I was feeling grief that we aren’t together physically but can usually reflect and know it’s not due to him being gone but my own issues. But today I almost was going to tell him this is too much and we should stop contact all together as it’s so intense and so deeply effecting me. As a 47 year old I’ve never been effected by someone like this with such deep soul connection I’m beside myself. I was not looking for anything and was happy waking up everyday just generally feeling love for the world with no focus. This has me focused on him and it’s hard to stay balanced. I feel so peaceful after watching your video here and know I’m hearing what I need to learn how to get thru this. I feel so blessed and grateful. Love and light to you both and my heart feel courage with your assistance. Deep thx!!

  8. The other way around with us, me runner, him chaser, age difference 17 years, in relationship for 10 years. Up until last week I struggled with acceptance, he never doubted us. Something shifted in me, last week and now, after 10 years of recistance coming from me, I surrender…
    Now I'm falling in Love all-over again, this is for real 😐
    You can't run from this, just dive in!!

  9. This is kind of weird because everything they are explaining i feel has happened in my relationship except with me having the female traits, (i am a male) and my partner having the male traits (she is a female) in terms of the runner chaser dynamic. I find it strange i feel i primarily have masculine energy and she has feminine energy so I wonder why this is?

  10. I feel so intense that I have been with my twin flame on and off for 6 years, Currently we are off way off he is moving with his gf. I am trying so hard to surrender to the process I am afraid of losing him forever. We had a a huge blowout that scared him of my emotions. I have done so much work and healing, sending him healing. we spoke brieftly yesterday and it was good but I was hoping he would see how much he missed me so i wrote him offering him my sincere friendship or a relatioship I really have missed him for so long this longing won't go away

  11. It always sounds like it's raining in these vids lol or have you added some healing frequencies in the background? I would loooooove it if you got some microphones a lotle closer as sound not doing your message justice <3 <3 Thank You for your brilliant insights blesssssssings <3 <3 ::::))))

  12. I have the same experience except I am the chaser and she is the runner… I was obsessed. I couldn't control myself. You just KNOW lol. The energy was so overwhelming. She never even gave it a chance lol. She told me in my mind that she is afraid that I will leave her. That is why she broke it off before it even started. She will be back soon. I can feel it.

  13. Wow, so happy I came across this! We're currently in the separation phase since February. He definitely triggered me into my pain body which made me cling and pull, which is what caused the separation in February from a minor argument because he was pulling away. Question – So if my energy was already so strong, since i'm more on the spiritual path, do the meditations that I do to call in my soul mat/twin flame just bombard and overwhelm him even more? Can the healing also be done if the other person is not familiar with twin flame?

  14. My ex and I were together 24 yrs. I always thought he was my twin. I guess I'm wondering how I felt that way but he didn't. It's been 11 yrs since he left and I can't describe the emptiness. He left with the person he had an affair with and never looked back. I truly feel in my heart that i never cross his mind. I always felt like a dark energy grabbed him. He was my best friend from 14 to 38 yo and he walked away so cold as if he didn't know me for 5 minutes. Still blows my mind. IDK??? Just before our divorce was final he said he'd always love me. Very confusing and painful.

  15. How much or at what point do I realize someone is my flame.
    I try alot and of ask for deep spiritual healing.
    Through god and ascended help .
    I Learned quite abit.
    my future is bright.
    I am so curious to figure out what one really needs to do to figure out who's his spiritual partner

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